Unmasking the Filtered Self

Unmasking the Filtered Self: Navigating the Epidemic of Deception in the Social Media Era

We’re such liars to ourselves and to each other because we can’t even see ourselves anymore. We have become so filtered as men that we cannot tell what’s real or not.

Men & women today have become so used to lying and so used to not dealing with the facts the average person can’t even take a picture of themselves without filtering it 75 fucking times and then posting it on Instagram as if they had taken it on a whim. Then we take this over-filtered image and declare: “This is ME!”

No, it’s not YOU. It’s a filtered version of you.

Social media was built as a platform for us to “Be Real” with each other, giving us a deeper look into reality in each other’s lives throughout the globe. Yet even with that being said, software creators have given us a ton of different ways to filter the shit out of what is real and deliver up to the social media world more Un-Reality.

Guys, as a photographer, I just had to write this down, finally! It’s crazy that as a luxury and celebrity wedding photographer, I have never experienced someone asking me to edit the shit out of their face. However, I’m getting that request from regular photography clients very often. Who knows me knows that I always refuse and say that plenty of other photographers will gladly do this to you…

Hold on to your seat because things are about to get interesting! I just asked an AI to write this article’s conclusion and am excited to share it with you. Are you ready? Here it goes: “In a world dominated by filtered realities and digital illusions, it’s crucial for us to confront the mirror and rediscover the authenticity within ourselves. The constant pursuit of perfection through filters not only distorts our self-perception but also hinders genuine connections with others. As we navigate the social media era, let us challenge the norms of deception, embrace our true selves, and foster a culture that values authenticity over illusion. By acknowledging the impact of filtered representations, we can strive for a more honest and meaningful existence, both online and offline. It’s time to unmask the filtered self and reclaim the power of genuine connection in the age of digital distortion.”

I’m just adding my last thought on this topic. I really hope that AI will soon write posts on social media and like it for itself, and we will live our lives again.


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